We adapt!

As women we adapt. We make things work. If something is causing us grief, hardship or pressure we adapt. A gift and a curse. A curse because we tend to minimize our problems so we can deal with them. We say, “Oh, it’s not that bad.” When actually the week before we were in the bathroom crying about it. We also internalize the real weight of the problem and it shows up in our “weight” because we will overeat or starve ourselves. Now what? Well, admit the problems as they are and pray a specific prayer for God to bring solutions to you. Perhaps a new mindset or a new job. Our Pastor has us praying this, “Father God what is the plan that you have for my life? What did you already predestine me for and put me in the earth realm for?” Also, we need to ask ourselves, “What brings me the most fulfillment and joy? What is my passion?” Well, this was mostly about the curse of being able to adapt. The blessing part of being able to adapt is that no matter what comes into our lives we will make it!